The good and the bad sides of holiday romance
The
good and the bad sides of holiday romance
A
holiday romance can sometimes sweep you off your feet, and it can also abandon
you feeling heartbroken and deserted. You are also more likely to have a
romance on holiday than when you are at home; and this is a fact.
A
holiday fling can get you to feel as if you are a queen as well as boost your
confidence. On the other hand, if he is more alert than you, you could be left
feeling annoyed and pressured. The solution to this is if you are informed that
you are only a fling, lay down your cards from the start to your possible beau.
Honesty on this issue does not mean not clinching the romance, but this is done
to avoid over-involvement. Added to this, if you want to end things during the
holiday, then do it. Be firm and assertive and tell him that you do not want to
see him again. It also pays to tell him that the romance will definitely stop at
the end of the holiday.
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Holiday
sex can also be dazzling. The feeling of being on a holiday can put even the
most modest person in the mood for sex. However, the problem is that holiday
sex usually can get out of control. Added to this, holiday romances are often
intense, but however you are tempted or enticed to do it try not to jump into
bed without thinking over your decision. If you feel that you are rushed and
pushed into intimacy, slow down everything. It is best not to make decision
which you will surely regret. If this cannot be avoided, do not forget to use
condoms to avoid being contaminated with sexually transmitted diseases.
Keep also you emotions in
check. Because emotions are high on holiday you may swiftly feel very intimate
to your partner. However, passion and intense intimacy may abruptly become at
odds with each other. To avoid this, do not spend all your time with him. Try
to spend some time to be alone or be with other fellow holidaymakers and
friends. If the guy really vexes you, express clearly what you want and
identify also what he wants. Arrive to an agreement that is workable to both of
you and stick to it. If he really irritates you, then it is best that you leave
him.
Moreover,
the holiday aura can be the perfect situation to meet a possible new partner.
To avoid heartbreaks, it is best to be observant for signs and it also pays to
be a bit suspicious.
Furthermore, a great number of happy relationships, most
notably in the 30-plus age groups, start on a holiday. If you are certain that
you have met your perfect partner then your holiday romance could be the start
of a lifelong relationship and commitment.
Cross-cultural
romances are also difficult to handle. If you date with a local, it is best to
ascertain if he has various relationships before. To remedy this, take an
honest look at your beau and ask yourself if you would still fall for him if
you meet him at home.